Kya One Sided Love Sach Me
Pyar Hota Hai?
Ek insaan hota hai. Woh roz tumhari life mein hota hai - tumhare WhatsApp pe, tumhare sapno mein, tumhare unke baare mein sochte waqt. Tum unke liye kuch bhi kar sakte ho. Unki ek bhi smile tumhara poora din theek kar deti hai. Aur unhe... pata bhi nahi hota.
Ye ek aisi feeling hai jo koi samajh nahi sakta jab tak khud jeeta nahi. Aur jo jeeta hai, woh kabhi bhool nahi sakta.
Kya ye pyar hai ya sirf ek khayaal?
Log kehte hain - Arre, agar saamne wala feel nahi karta toh ye pyar nahi, ye sirf obsession hai. Bahut confident kehte hain. Jaise unhe pyar ki dictionary mili ho. Lekin sach ye hai ki pyar kabhi permission maangke nahi aata. Pyar tumhara dil tod ke aata hai, bina notice diye.
Woh raat ko 2 baje uthke unki last seen check karna - kya ye obsession hai? Unke nayi profile pic pe ghanton sochna ki yeh kiske liye lagaya - kya ye sirf ek khayaal hai? Woh unka naam kisi aur ki awaaz mein sunke bhi thoda ruk jaana - kya ye bas dil ka khaali waqt tha?
Woh dard jo bataya nahi jaata
One sided love mein ek alag hi tarah ka dard hota hai - woh dard jo tum kisi ko bata bhi nahi sakte. Kyunki agar bataoge, toh log kahenge - Haan toh bol do unhe. Ya worst - Bhaad mein jao, aage badho.
Lekin tum jaante ho na? Ke itna simple nahi hota. Ek toh darr hota hai reject hone ka. Ek toh ye sochna hota hai ke agar bol diya aur unhone nahi kaha, toh jo thodi si dosti hai, jo thodi si closeness hai, woh bhi chali jaayegi. Aur tum us thodi si closeness ko hi treasure ki tarah sambhal ke jeete ho.
Tum unhe gift dete ho aur woh kehte hain - Aww thanks bestie!
Aur tum muskurate ho. Andar se kuch toot ke bhi.
Kya ye sirf weakness hai?
Society ne ek narrative banaya hai - ke agar tum kisi ke liye roke hue ho aur woh nahi ruk raha, toh tum weak ho. Self-respect nahi hai tumhe. Move on karo. Life mein aage badho.
Par koi ye nahi poochta ke tum ruk kyun gaye the? Koi ye nahi samajhta ke jab koi insaan tumhari zindagi mein aisa aata hai ke tum genuinely unki parwah karne lagte ho - unki khushi ke liye tumhe apni khushi takhta nahi lagti - woh feeling jhooth nahi hoti.
Ek taraf ka pyar karna koi kamzori nahi hai. Ye ek teri hi achi quality hai - ke tu bina wajah ke bhi kisi ko itna important rakh sakta hai. Duniya mein itne log hain jo genuinely kisi ki care karna hi nahi jaante. Aur tum care karte ho. Woh real hai.
Pyar ka seedha matlab sirf haan milna nahi hota. Pyar ka matlab ye bhi hota hai ke tum kisi ke liye itne badal gaye - itne sensitive, itne real ho gaye - ke woh version of you, ab wahi nahi raha.
Toh phir kya karna chahiye?
Main ye nahi kahunga ke bol do - kyunki yeh decision sirf tumhara hai, tumhare hisaab se best timing pe. Main ye bhi nahi kahunga ke bhool jao - kyunki ye bol dena jitna aasaan hai karna utna nahi.
Main bas itna kahunga - apne aap ko blame mat karo. Ye feel karna ke tum kisi ke liye is tarah soch rahe ho - ye teri burai nahi hai. Ye teri insaniyat hai.
Lekin ek baat dhyaan rakhna - apne aap ko itna mat kho dena ki jab woh milega jo tumhe actually chahiye, tab tum dhoondhe se bhi nahi milte khud ko.
Tumhara pyar real tha. Tumhara dard real tha.
Aur tum - tum bhi bahut real ho.
Kisi ek ke nahi se ye sab invalid nahi ho jaata.
Haan - One Sided Love, Pyar Hi Hota Hai.
Without any doubt. Jo tum feel karte ho woh real hai. Usme dictionary ki definition fit nahi baithe, toh bhi. Usme dono log involve nahi hain, toh bhi.
Pyar ek feeling hai - aur feelings kabhi half nahi hoti. Ya hoti hain, ya nahi hoti. Tumhari hoti hai, poori.
Aur ek din - believe karo ya nahi - tum kisi ke liye woh hoge jiske liye woh bhi raat ko 2 baje uthenge. Woh bhi tumhara naam le ke muskuraenge. Aur us baar dono taraf se hoga.
Agar tumne bhi ye feel kiya hai...
Toh tum akele nahi ho. Hazar log rooz isi dard ke saath jeete hain aur kisi ko bata nahi paate. Neeche comment karo - kuch bhi. Ek line bhi kaafi hai. Kyunki kabhi kabhi sirf yeh jaanna kaafi hota hai ki koi aur bhi samjha.
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9 Comments
Sachcha pyar hamesha mil jaye zaroori nahi… kabhi kabhi woh one sided bhi hota hai.
ReplyDeleteOne sided love me umeed kam aur ehsaas zyada hote hain. 🥀
ReplyDeleteBahut hi khoobsurat aur relatable likha hai.
ReplyDeleteAapne pyar aur obsession ke beech jo confusion hota hai, usse bahut honestly express kiya hai. Har line mein emotions ka depth feel hota hai, especially woh raat ko last seen check karne aur chhoti-chhoti baaton mein kisi ko mehsoos karne wali baat. Yeh blog sirf ek kahani nahi lagta, balki bahut logon ke dil ki baat jaisa feel hota hai. Aise hi dil se likhte rahiye — aapki writing readers ko sochne par majboor karti hai. ✨
One side love koi majburi ya kamjori nai yai ek aisa ahesas hai jo krne wala hi janta hai ki kya value hoti hai uske pyar ki jiko woh krta hai pyar aur woh uske liye shayd bhagwan se upper hota hai jisko woh pyar krta hai hm per ek baat hai one sided pyar kbhi nai milta hai it's true
ReplyDeleteOne sided love is a feeling aur yeah wohi smjh sakta h jisne sach me kisise true love kia ho
ReplyDeleteGood one
ReplyDeleteIt’s true
ReplyDeleteLoving in any way indeed defins that one is living 🤓
ReplyDeleteTo love someone is about caring for the person
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